In the London Underground, “Mind the Gap” is the constant warning to “see and beware” of the space between the platform and the train door…literally a matter of life and death! Boarding my blog, however, this same phrase is a plea to consider the valuable difference between words or concepts that otherwise are offered as the same thing. Mind The Gap asks us to pay attention to the difference that I hope empowers self and others.
What IS the difference, for example, between Success and Achievement?
Success is defined as an accomplishment of an aim or purpose…however, all too often, we use the term to describe “status” or the amount of money/things a person has. Who comes to mind when you think of who you know that is “Successful”?
Achievement, on the other hand, is defined as things done successfully. Having many/repetitive successes will pave the way towards the achievement! Achievement comes from being successful many times over…yet, ironically, achievement does not guarantee one’s success!Who comes to mind when you think of who you know that has achieved something in life…achieved something WITH their life?
Mind the Gap! The difference between Success and Achievement is subtle because they are codependent. They need each other to exist. And, isn’t it interesting how things can be achieved unsuccessfully (passing class with a “C” is an achievement, even if not a successful one), yet nothing can be achieved without one or more things being done successfully (even the “C” student succeeds 70-80% of the time)!
Please also consider that while Achievement is verifiable, Success is a bit more subjective. What a HUGE difference?!
You can believe you have success while others believe you are nowhere close to it! Or, you may NOT believe yourself to be successful at the same time that millions would literally risk their lives to be YOU!
All the while, an achievement is an achievement…regardless of the pedigree, honor or heroism ascribed to it, it can be verified and agreed upon when someone achieves something.
The good and bad news is that Success is mostly a “state of mind.” You can feel successful without physically/tangibly achieving anything, whereas achievement is more a “state of status” (or material/tangible). You must see something accomplished, or accomplish a goal yourself in order to have achieved something.
It really all comes down to standards. The standards you set for yourself will determine what you set out to achieve and the degree to which the pursuit and attainment of those achievements will require and/or bring you success. AND until you set standards, the difference between Success and Achievement is truly a “chicken-or-egg” conversation that will most likely get you nowhere!Private Coaching is a GREAT place to get clarity on your standards…to become crystal clear on the achievements you most wish to pursue in life/business/career. The difference between Success and Achievement is the standards you set…but the difference between setting them and just thinking about them COULD BE the effective coaching! You have heard it said often that “no one succeeds alone”…and the highest achievers in life, sport, art, and business ALL have effective Coaches supporting them along the way.
Call to Action: Try Two Complimentary Sessions with a Get A Klu Certified Coach (you might even get ME!). Or if you are already working with a Coach of your own, make sure you do your ½ year check in as the month of July approaches to see if you are on track to ACHIEVE your definition(s) of SUCCESS for 2018. To Your Success…and Achievement!
Jeffrey Klubeck, M.A.
Jeff Klubeck is the owner of Get A Klu Inc., he studied Communication at San Diego State University, and Lives in San Diego, California. He is a Coach, Professor and Influencer. A Genius in his own right.